Yesterday’s visit was a tribute to Elsie – my mum. We went to spread her ashes around the ten trees she had bought me for the woods. So this post is not about woodlands but a tribute to a person who was a true hero and without her, you wouldn’t be reading this blog. If she was a tree, she would be an oak. Strong and resilient and long lived. She made it to the grand age of 93 but it wasn’t an easy life. Like an old oak, she weathered many storms and bore the battle scars but despite that, stood strong.
WW2 was hanging over the country when she decided to leave her steady job as a bookeeper and do her bit for Britain. She signed up as a WAAF and played an important role, plotting aircraft for Bomber Command and helping us win the Battle of Britain. She raised her family, tending to her husband Lawson, who had suffered with malaria and stress related illnesses after his role as a radio operator in the 8th Army (another hero in my book, having survived the ravages of living in the Western Desert and escaping the enemy at Dunkirk.) At the same time she held down several part time jobs and supported her sickly father, another old soldier, a gunner who had been gassed in WW1. Not an easy life for a young woman with two young children.
She suffered most of her adult life with a painful physical condition but rarely moaned or complained. In her late life she developed macular degeneration which robbed her of most of her eyesight and the hobbies she loved so much. When I bought the woods, she took a real interest in it and loved to hear me describing what it was like, the jobs I’d done, the birds I’d seen etc. She joined the Woodland Trust and donated money for trees for various projects they were running. She bought me ten large saplings which I planted two years ago. There are two wild cherry trees which I suggested might be dedicated to her and dad. When talking about the woods, she would often ask “How’s Elsie and Lawson doing?” She had a lovely silly sense of humour.
She loved her family, was always there for people when they needed some support and loved a get-together for a meal. Her life ended a year ago, as painful and difficult as it had ever been, with a degenerating heart condition and several mini strokes. She had no specific wishes for her ashes and after much considration, I decided the most fitting place was with the trees she had bought. After spreading the ashes, we headed to the nearby inn for a lovely meal. I know she would have 100% approved and hopefully those trees will live as long as she did.














